What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 13:38
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Which movies have the best endings?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Why is the world male-dominated?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
*** Questions About Me ***
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50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
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If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
How are Hinduism and Sikhism related, considering they both originated in Punjab, India?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
It has been said that people with ADHD can often hyperfocus. Can that be an advantage?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
What are some photos of masturbation?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
What is the most unwatchable movie you have sat through?
What is your favorite position? Why?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
What is the XXX XXX Keerna Kappor video?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Has the current political environment caused Canadians to cancel trips to the United States?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Nothing too Serious
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Please share Did you stop?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Family Relation Age Play
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
52~ What are your hobbies?
39~ What are your love languages?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
If yes, what?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Would you read them together?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
29- How superstitious are you?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
How old are you? Male or Female?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
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I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
*** Random Questions ***
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
If you win, what will you make them do?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
The Ice Breaker Questions
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?